The last few nights have been tiring. Monday night Gemma was up every 30-45 minutes for no explainable cause. Then Tuesday night, she slept better- only up twice. However, William was up 3 different times with painful foot cramps. So, I was up 5 times. I think. Kind of all runs together.
On Wednesday, we were driving to ballet class in our minivan (Gemma, Amelia, mom). Amelia is vigorously kicking the back off Gemma's seat.
Mom: Amelia please stop kicking please.
Amelia: mom! I'm not kicking! I'm stomping.
Mom: Amelia! Stop stomping then.
Amelia: ok (kicking noise stops)
(Kicking noise resumes, although to a different rhythm.)
Mom/ (tired, patience gone): Amelia! Stop! Kicking!
Amelia: but mom! I'm not kicking. I'm dancing ( even though she is 2 rows behind me, I can tell she is smiling)!
Mom(arg! Is it bedtime?): Amelia! Keep your feet quiet!
(Quiet for a moment, then very soft kicking noise resumes)
Mom: AMELIA! (I'd like to tell you it wasn't shrieking, but I'm afraid it was)
Amelia: my feet just wanted to go for a quiet walk mom.
(Head exploding, silently praying for patience)
Amelia: what is 3+3?
Mom (what? I'm still busy talking myself down off of a cliff here and trying to see a color other than red)
What?
Amelia: what is 3+3?
Mom: I don't know? What is 3+3?
Amelia: 3+3 is 6!
Mom: you are right! 3+3 IS 6!
Amelia: that means there are 6! Seats! In our van!
Mom: whaaaat? (Am confused..)
Amelia: there are 3 seats on this side of the van (points to the left) and 3 seats on that side (points to the right). That means there are 6 seats in our van.
Mom: mouth hanging open. Yes! Yes! 6 seats in the van! (Seriously? Addition, word problem, grouping numbers together? There are MANY mathematical skills involved in this little statement here)
*this is what parenting is like for me. It is 90% the absolutely hardest work I've ever done....and then there are these moments of clarity and brilliance that remind me about everything. Why I'm working so hard, why this is so important, how special these kiddos are, etc. But the late wake up calls, mountains of laundry and constant fighting? This job isn't glamorous y'all.
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